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Tricks to Attract Men by Priyanka ,  Sep 1, 2013
Have you ever wanted to know to how can attract men to you? These simple tips will help you lure men your way.

Step1 Smile to attract a man and you need to be confident in the way your walk, talk, smile, and greet. Men seem to be attracted to people who ooze that trait. Walk with your head held high, talk convincingly, smile with glee, and greet with humility. If you are confident then men will see that you believe in yourself.

Step2 Take time to pamper yourself sometimes we lack time to take care of ourselves. Take an extra 15 minutes in the morning to do your hair in your favorite style, put on a little makeup, not to much; men tend to prefer a natural look. A little lip gloss and eye liner can go a long way. Buy a moisturizer for your skin to give yourself a morning glow. Spray on that body spray or perfume that makes you smell like a princess. Look in the mirror and appreciate what you see. If you appreciate and are confident in what you see, then the men will be also.

Step3 Glasses and White T-shirt Take extra time when selecting your clothing for the day. Wear colorful clothing that separates you from the flock. Reds, Yellow, and Pastels have been known to attract the eyes in crowd. Giving you a higher chance to stand out. Presentation is key and so is being comfortable. When your are not comfortable, it shows in your face. You want to be comfortable, yet presentable. Example: Baby Blue blouse with a khaki pants with a red scarf and nice flat would be nice for work, Running errands, feel free to wear a white tee shirt, fitted jeans, and loose hair in curls, gives the carefree look, but is a look that most models wear during interviews, for dates or parties a simple black cocktail dress works just fine. These outfits let your true beauty stand out, without distractions or complexity. What you’re wearing should never get in the way of the task at hand.

Step4 Put on a happy face, and smile. Men love when you smile. It makes your look welcoming, accepting, and happy. A simple smile could attract many your way. Don't be surprised if you flash a smile at a guy walking towards a door, that he might open it for your. Don't forget to greet him and say thank you if he does.

Some more Tips Break the ice by laughing a lot. Men love to be around women who is happy and likes to laugh. Yes, we're smart enough to know that our jokes aren't funny and you're laughing to impress, but it still makes us happy, BELIEVE ME. Anything that can make us feel more comfortable is a plus!

Ask when you're going to see him again. Never do anything that would appear to hint that you dislike him. This includes not talking very much, lack of eye contact and frowns or depressed expressions. If you do give off something negative, make up for it by saying you really like him.

Knowing how to attract men can be summed up in three areas, which we will cover in this article. The easiest way to attract men is to get rid of your “needy vibe” that comes across as desperation.

Unfortunately men can pick up on the signs, but the good news is there are many things you can do about it which means that before you know it, you will have attractive men throwing themselves at you just by applying some simple tips.

How to attract men without the rejection part…

Learning how to be attractive to men doesn’t always involve rejection, women seem to believe that men will somehow reject them if they speak to them or attempt to ignite some attraction. But that couldn’t be further from the truth, men are more shocked that anything else – so use this to your advantage and start chatting to the guys you like, who knows you could find love in the strangest places.

Being desperate doesn’t attract men

Desperation stems from feeling out of control in a situation, and is comes from the panic you feel when you put too much importance on finding a man.

The trick to attracting men is to make sure you value all the other areas of your life (for example your job, your family, your friends, your hobbies, etc) just as highly as you value having a man in your life.

Keeping an equal weighting on every area makes you a more interesting person and a better conversationalist.

It will make you feel more confident about yourself and more laid back in social situations which is attractive to any man!

When women feel desperate, they do this…!

Many women who come across to men as being desperate have a tendency to approach a man or walk into a relationship thinking 6 months ahead.

Unfortunately men can sense this expectation a mile away and it terrifies them! What men want isn’t the same as women, so you need to understand their needs from an emotional standpoint.

When thinking about how to attract men, don’t forget that they do not want to feel like your happiness lies in their hands or that you are living your life through them.

Take pro-active steps towards your own projects on a daily basis which will help you not to panic about the future and keep the feeling of being in control.

Signs of desperation, that really doesn’t attract men

We’ve interviewed many men on what women do that makes them look desperate when they are out and why that is such a turn off.

You may already be aware of a number of these, but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of them! Firstly, when you’re out with your friends do not laugh excessively at every joke men make, dance too sexily or get too drunk!

You don’t want to look like you are trying too hard to impress!

When you are talking to a man stay calm and don’t feel the need to talk too much.

There is no need to iron out the awkward silences, as there is nothing wrong with conversational pauses so let the lulls occur and give him time to think.

Also, take care not get caught talking about your past relationships (this is where staying sober can help)!

The quickest solution to finding a man really is to focus on handling the other areas of your life and having a lifestyle that you really enjoy. When you do this, you’ put yourself in control of your own happiness and will effortlessly attract great men into your life.

So there you have it, understanding how to attract men in any situation really comes down to not being so needy, so watch out for that.

Tip #1: Make Scent Your Strong Point

"A recent study at Oxford University revealed that when men were shown a woman's headshot, they rated her as more attractive when the photo was presented along with a pleasant scent," says Suzy McCoppin, columnist for Playboy and dating and sex expert. "Smell is linked to memory more than any other sense, so you want to be unforgettable." Before you leave for your date, spritz your favorite perfume all over, even in unexpected places like underneath your hair and on your lingerie. "Give him a good reason to want to kiss you everywhere—even your ankles," says McCoppin. "Imagine him unstrapping your stilettos and having your perfume waft up to greet him. I recommend trying one of Playboy's new fragrances Play It Lovely, Play It Sexy, or Play It Spicy. These fragrances provide women with the confidence and attitude to feel irresistible."

Men are crazy about vanilla, strawberry and other yummy food-related smells because they find them comforting, so spray away with a perfume like Angel by Thierry Mugler. To see if your current fragrance passes the come-hither test, delve into these seductively sweet scents or try a flirty date-night perfume to pull him in.

Tip #2: Get Your Glow On

Add some body shimmer to your lotion after you shower. (Try Victoria's Secret Brilliant All-Over Shimmer Powder; $14) "The flecks capture the light and create a youthful, sexy glow," says McCoppin. If you're wearing a low-cut top, don't forget to brush a bronzer on your décolletage— the contour will make your cleavage more defined.

Tip #3: Commit to a Pre-Date Workout

"Strength training, especially ab work, will make you a bit sore in all the right places, and you'll feel tighter, firmer, and more confident," says McCoppin. "Also, make sure you stand up straight. Good posture is slimming, coveys confidence, and makes your stomach look flatter and your chest appear larger."

Tip #4: Strut Your Stuff

"Have you ever seen a gorgeous woman stand up, and when she walks she stomps around like a Clydesdale? You need to perfect your walk," says McCoppin. "A good walk is vastly underrated as a means of seduction. Always keep in mind: You're a graceful, powerful, woman. But at the same time, don't overdo it. You're not on a runway!"

Tip #5: Say It Like You Own It

"Using positive affirmations may sound dorky, but it works," says McCoppin. "Anything you say out loud, the unconscious mind digests as truth. So if you say over and over again, 'I'm lovely, sexy and amazing,' you'll start to believe it." And if you start to believe that about yourself, you'll have a way better shot at getting Jake over in the accounting department to notice you.

When it comes to men and their levels of attraction, they are based on a few factors:

• Physical attraction 

• Mental attraction 

• Social attraction 

• Physical attraction

No, that’s not a typo. Physical attraction is mentioned twice on purpose, but we’ll get to that later. First, let’s look at physical attraction in general. Men are biologically made to notice a woman’s appearance. It’s no coincidence that beautiful women sell magazines and why movies depicting beautiful women sell out at the box office. Sex sells and beauty sells, and it’s all because of biology. Men’s DNA is designed to go after the most biologically viable female. That means he is looking for a woman who will make healthy babies.

While that may sound animalistic and impersonal, it’s a biological fact. Therefore, it’s no wonder why you, as a woman, dress up before you go out. You’ll shave your legs, wax your eyebrows, use special bras to push your boobs together, put make up on your face, do your hair and wear lots of great smelling perfume. Why do you do this? You do it to attract a man. Because you know a man is always going to be attracted to the physical first.

However, the physical isn’t the only thing that attracts a man. If you’re not the best looking woman on the planet, and you don’t have the best body, you can still attract men. You can do it by playing on their mental attraction levels. This is where you constantly keep him guessing and you never let him onto to how you truly feel about him.

Building and maintaining mental attraction can best be accomplished by teasing him, flirting with him and then ignoring him, making a date with him and then cancelling or postponing that date, etc. If he’s constantly put off balance, he will go crazy for you and will pursue you more than ever. You must keep him hooked, however, which is done by showing him attention, flirting with him and even turning him on, then pulling away. This trick works like a charm and even if he’s not that physically attracted to you. Of course there must be at least some physical attraction for this to work, but even if it’s only a little he will go crazy with desire when you play on his mental attraction levels.

Social attraction is where you always have something going on. When he calls, tell him you were busy with a club you attend, or you were out with friends. A man never wants to know that you’re just home sitting by the phone waiting for him to call. He wants to know that you’re desired by other men. He wants to know that you have friends and that you go out with those friends. The thing is that most men don’t know they want this. But if you can make it appear as though your calendar is always full, and that you don’t have a lot of time for him, he will go crazy with desire. He’ll make it his personal goal to implant himself into your social life. Your job is just to give him attention and then pull away because you’re too busy. Create the right balance, and you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand.

Finally, there’s physical attraction again. It’s included twice on the list because it’s so important when it comes to men and attraction levels. So if you want to get that man you’ve got your sights on, make sure you’re what he’s looking for physically. That doesn’t mean you have to look like a model. It just means taking care of yourself and making yourself look desirable. If you can accomplish that, you’ll be able to create attraction in any man you have your eye on.

A lot of people out there have dating advice, but it's always general things: dress better, be confident, act smart, etc.  None of them tell you things that you should ACTUALLY DO to get men or women to like you!Well, I'm going to use my massive experience as a player and a matchmaker to give you three quick, concrete steps you can take that will start generating more interest and start melting the ice.  Here are my THREE GOLDEN TRICKS to attract people (romantically, physically, mentally, and just plain friendly):

1.    Never Say "Not Much": The number one trick of interesting people is that when someone asks them "What are you up to?" or "How's it going?", they never respond with "Not much", "Just fine", or any other bland and boring answer like that.  If you want people to be interested in you, tell them what you're actually doing, even if it's simple.  Don't lie, just be straightforward.  If you were watching TV, say what show you were watching and how it makes you feel.  If you were picking your nose, tell them that!  The more specific, the better.

2.    Look, Lock, and Smile: When you're outside the house, don't look down at your feet, look around at people's faces and try and lock eyes with them.  You'll be amazed at how many people are looking at you and each other.  When you catch a glance your way, seal the deal by smiling quickly but not mechanically: just smile.  This is a surefire, discreet, and cool way to let strangers know you're interested in them, and they'll be sure to smile back.  If they do, go over and strike a conversation, even if it's just "Hey there!  I like your smile!"  You will be so surprised at how happy they'll be that you did so.  If you don't believe me, go to Craigslist and look at the "Missed Connections" under the "Personals" section.  A lot of people wish they could get to know strangers that smiled at them but never asked for their number.  Try this especially on the subway.

3.    Don't Be a Joker, But Have a Joke: People usually don't like jokers the same way that kids don't actually like clowns.  They make them nervous by trying to hard.  However, having one good joke on hand is always helpful.  Keep in mind: a joke is NOT a funny story or a witty line.  Very few people tell real jokes anymore, which makes others appreciate them even more.  Bring it up totally unprompted, just say "Hey, I've got a funny joke, care to hear?"Try those three golden tricks and you'll start being more attractive in no time.
have the qualities to attract men, then you probably do not know that the art of attraction is a skill that can be learned. With the right techniques, you can make him go crazy for you. You do not have to remain frustrated because there are things you can do to attract the man of your dreams. Here are some tips:

Be an interesting woman. To make him go crazy for you, you have to show him that you are someone interesting. Do not make your life revolve just around him but make a life of your own. Find time for your hobbies and learn new things. Men find women who are not too dependent and can do things on their own very attractive and interesting. An interesting woman is a man magnet.

Be a good conversationalist. Being too loud and talkative is a big turn off for most men but if you are too quiet, men will find you boring. The key to make him go crazy for you is to be a good conversationalist. He will get amazed that you can talk about a wide range of topics. He will eventually want to spend more time with you because he enjoys talking to you.

Be a pleasant person to be with. Women who are very negative and too serious are not pleasant to be with because they tend to create a sad and gloomy environment. People who are bubbly and happy are nice to be with and if you have those qualities you can make him go crazy for you. If you can brighten up his day, you can make him go crazy for you and he will definitely look forward to be with you all the time.

Appear beautiful. The physical appearance of women is important to most men. You do not have to possess a face and a body like those of Hollywood stars to make him go crazy for you but you have to make an effort to look beautiful. Be at ease with your body and accept your flaws because everybody has them. Know your best features and use it to your advantage. If you have long beautiful legs then do not be afraid to flaunt it once in while but be careful not too appear too cheap. If you think your eyes are not attractive, there are ways to improve them like wearing a proper eye make-up. Practice good hygiene, always appear fresh, smell good and know how to dress properly. You can make him go crazy for you if you know how to feel and look beautiful.

Attract Men by Using These 3 Magnetic Qualities

  1. Forget about your looks for 30days. Just imagine that the make-up you use has nothing to do with your ability to attract men. Nor, do the clothes you wear have anything to do with it at all. Now if your face, makeup or clothes can’t help you what would you emphasis about yourself in your effort to attract others? I am not going to tell you, that is something you examine a bit for yourself. Think about it a little.
  2. One crucial part of magnetism is your ability to influence the way a person feels. The more comfortable you are able to make a person feel the more drawn that person will be to you. When it comes to sexual attraction you must be able to put that feeling inside of the other person. People are driven not by what they see but by how that thing makes them feel and men are no different. Influence their feelings and you have tremendous power over them. In your goal to attract men you must know how to make them FEEL drawn to you.
  3. Persuasion is the next powerful step to magnetism. The key to persuading someone is to know what they truly want. People are driven to take action when given even the mere illusion that they are getting precisely what they want. This is not a trick by any means; however the mere UNDERSTANDING of what a man wants is enough to attract men in droves.

Know what it takes to attract men, and then build it inside yourself until it becomes a natural part of you. Pure supernatural magnetism takes technique.

Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game?We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five unbelievably effective secrets to make guys go gaga.Work it, dream girl:1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTIONWant to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex. Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. (But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...)If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. Interesting conversation AND a full drink? You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven. The worst place to be seen? Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.2. THE COLOR LUREWhat color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you?According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong women? Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear.Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," says Eiseman. Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away from what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green" which is said to repel both sexes equally.Want to know what color the dream guys will be wearing this year?It’s blue. According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- he’s dependable, monogamous and can match his own clothes.3. BODY TALK THAT REELS 'EM INHow do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?The key is to make yourself approachable. According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. How do you accomplish that? Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. " Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say.Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.4. THE POWER OF A SMILEPsychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. According to Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."5. TEMPTING WITH SCENTStudies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon rolls about an hour before your date arrives, or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume

Since cuffing season is in full affect I found Your Tango’s 5 Flirting Tips For Attracting Men:

  • Complain about something together. Find something small or insignificant that bothers both of you. This is where your sense of humor blends with making a connection and as a result can create a sense of fun-loving and flirtatious camaraderie.
  • Compliment his new shirt. If you think guys don’t like or crave compliments, you are mistaken. Ask him where he got it. If he says he sometimes needs another opinion, offer to be that opinion-giver.
  • Make the most of body language. Make genuine, consistent eye contact. Let him know you’re paying attention to what he’s saying. Smile often when you’re with him. Smile at him.
  • Don’t interrupt him with your story that betters his. Truly listen and reflect back what you hear him saying.
  • Don’t wait an hour to text him back. Don’t wait two days to text him back. The good men don’t want to play games and will be completely turned off if you follow “the rules.” If you think you’re playing hard to get and he will totally know that you like him and are doing just that by ignoring him, chances are he’ll get frustrated.

These are few tricks to be followed to attract a guy and make him fall in love with. The first thing you should keep in mind is self confidence, confidence that you have the power to attract anyone in world, trust yourself that whatever you are doing is right

1. You pay attention to what he is saying just listen to his view point, this will realize him that you like talking him and give importance to him. If he is upset make him smile to show that you care about him. Talk about his likes and dislikes

2. Try to be little different from other women rather than talking about boring home stuff you should talk about his problems and other stuff related to him and it will be better if you talk about love and romance this will make him desperate to talk you more

3. No matter how you look, what you are, how stupid, crazy you are just be yourself. He can never fall in love with you if he doesn't know your actual identity. Never try to be fake. Feel yourself to be the best person of world that doesn't mean you have to be loud. Guys like girls full of confidence

4. Try to have a good sense of humor. Make efforts to bring smile on his face rather than talking about serious matters, this may annoy him. Try to flirt with him this may change his mood and develop some feeling for you

5. Try to buildup your personal magnetism and for these good textured clothes will help you out, make yourself as beautiful as you can

6. Try to make yourself a great person with a motivating, cheerful, caring, nature. Never talk about some other guy in front of the guy you like. First try to a friend and than a lover, this will give you time to understand each other

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